The most awaited moment of my life. I was judged a lot based on this shortcoming of mine. People used to laugh at my decisions, but I was never a people pleaser. I have always created my own story, always gained my own experience and always explored my happiness.
Last year I was rejected by so many organisations… they liked everything but they had their doubts about my stability.
I was looking for work where I could find myself, where I could be satisfied with my work and see my efforts materialise. I have always followed my instincts. And I did what I believe in; Compromising and negotiating with my principles was something I never did.
I have made some mistakes and I learnt from them. And I promise not to repeat them. After seeing so many rejections, I got depressed.
One day I got a call from Wishes and Blessings for volunteering opportunities. I joined them as a volunteer. I was overwhelmed with my experience. Then I applied for an internship, I didn’t apply for a full-time position because back then I was not confident enough. After seeing my performance they gave me a full-time opportunity. Again I took my time but finally accepted the opportunity.
Every day at Wishes and Blessings is like a celebration of life. I have not only completed one year at the organization but I have also found my lost soul. I found my energy!. Earlier I used to think- kya mejn kabhi ek saal kahi kaam kr paongi? Kya mujhe kabhi woh milega jo main karna chahti hun?
Today I got not only a one-year completion but a lot more which I can’t even explain. I got it because I never added myself in any rat race I have created my own story and experience. People used to say you are a loser, fake , and so much more… I never replied. I just cried because I always knew whenever we all will get something we always wanted to do, we can not only stay there for one year we can be there forever ♾
The right timing and decisions can take you anywhere. Today I have completed one year and I am not answerable to anyone. I have done this because I got the best opportunity and I worked with the best team where people can see themselves as better people. I am working as a Volunteer Coordinator where I can see the change and be the change with my youth army. I am working with the best organisation where everyone believes to uplift everyone. Working on the ground makes me more humble and grounded and grateful. I learn something everyday.
My only message for everyone is- let’s inspire and uplift each other, transcending all differences. This is the basis of changing society at the most fundamental level.
Don’t run on society’s judgements and create your own experience 🥰
Be your saviour and sunshine, don’t be a damsel in distress.
About the Author
Monika loves to read in her spare time, and her favourite author is Marks Manson. If you don’t catch her reading, you might see her gorging on street food or napping.